Most defining moment of my life

Kingsley Vitus Obi

Most defining moment of my life

October  13^th 2010

Death is inevitable and every living person will experience it one way or the other. One thing about death is, man will never know the day and time it will come by. Most people are afraid to say the word death or even think about it. Sometimes the only way to subdue the fear of death is to accept that death is real and spend great time with the ones their love regardless of their age, race and statues, it comes in a random manes making it hard to say who is next in line.

Spending time with your loved one is one of the best things in life because life itself is so funny that you cannot understand.  “Carpe Diem” is what life is all about.

Once a time I had an uncle who was very nice to me, and other people around him. He was such a great and a gentle man, hard working with his beautiful wife by his side. He was an example of the kind of person I will like to become someday because he was a God fearing person. But after having all these quail ties, death had no respect for that and it had to take him in a manner I would not agree to, which was very painful and heartbreaking. The feeling of missing him for the rest of our lives, without a notice none a kind of sign showing that it was on the way, his death changed my entire thoughts and view of the world.

That morning after the prayer section he called each and every one of us in the house advising us to be good people and that he had never done before which was amazing only for it to be his last words on earth. He said to me, “I know you want to school in the United States, don’t  be afraid, because the school is on the high side will be taking care of your airfare and I know you will be fine because our God will be with you, and He  will, “not knowing that was the end I all I will get from his an elderly  advice ,He want out on his daily business as he normally do and when it was time for him to leave for the day back home, forgotten how dangerous it was to carry cash back home but he did carry

OBI VITUS KINGSLEY

GENDER COMMUICATION PAPER

OCTOBER 10, 2010.

Purpose State:-This paper point out the ways American women regard silence and speech as the major form of communication in their life by the Men.

MAN TO WOMAN.

Majority of American women remind them self of the kind of affiliation the man have for them

 by manly speech, regardless of what the man thinks about communication.

Men are very considerate when it comes to women’s related issues, the fear of mistake is part of

the reason men considers every word their say to the women has to be reasonable and respected.

Men have the expression that there have to be the winner not the looser in terms of

Communicating with the women, which some of the women hardly understands the best time

And how to correct their men, so not to look embarrassing, cause their some

time correct the men in public making it embarrassing to the male gander.

This causes a break in speech leaving the men with other means of

 communicating with women.

According to Barbara Harken a college professor of English department at Wartburg College

 Waverly, Iowa. and also a writer, always says to her student that “she had asked her husband bob

why doesn’t he say the word I love you to her Barbara and bob said am here with you and

remained marred to you Barbara.”

Signs that bob loved Barbara were interpreted in two different views, bob the man saw his

Present by his wife side as a way of communicating his love for Barbara, while she felt bob

doesn’t express his love for her simple because he doesn’t say the word to her.

Present by his wife side as a way of communicating his love for Barbara, while she felt bob

doesn’t express his love for her simple because he doesn’t say the word to her.

COMING TO COLLEGE

                                    KINGSLEY V. OBI
                                    IS 101
                                    11TH SEPTEMBER, 2010
   
                COMING TO COLLEGE

    Coming to college far away from my family and love ones was the hardest decision I have ever made. I remember that tepid Friday evening, as I was boarding the plane to come to school, all I was thinking of was what I will gain from leaving my home, friends, and relations to come to college in a place I know little or nothing about. The answers that crossed my mind was that I will grow as a person i.e. I will be able to decide what is wrong from right, be able to live independently, be responsible because college seeks to unearth maturity in students. I will have the opportunity to meet new people and make new friends from different parts of the world and that will expose me to new cultures, beliefs, values, faith, and ideas. On getting here, as the days go by, I realize that everything I hoped to gain from college was turning out to be. From orange exceleration to the first day of class have been so intriguing. The new culture, people, food, and style is also intriguing. I can tell from my little experience from the liberal education being offered here at Wartburg College that, my future here in school and after school is very bright. I will graduate from here as a critical analyst who will contribute my quota in the development of my country and also help in placing it into the global map.